How about those lucky things? Infatuation makes dopamine and when infatuation flows into love then you are going well on endorphins. If you are looking for a 'partner for life', these are roughly the three relationship tips / key elements for joint happiness:
1 – Trust
Trust always comes first, along with honesty and respect. If you can trust each other's intentions, this is the basis of a happy togetherness. Trusting each other through and through, that often takes a while, it just takes time. Trust issues can arise, especially if you have already had some relationships. Above all, express what you expect from someone, make your boundaries known and above all trust your own feelings.
2 – Humor
A partner who makes you laugh is not only very pleasant, but also really good for your happiness in life. You know by now how important laughter is and that it comes from humor. Having the same sense of humor together is golden. Because if your goal is a lifelong relationship, you will encounter many ups and downs along the way. And it is precisely those less fun moments that you can have much better with a little humor.
3 – Physical Attraction
In many cases, physical attraction comes from a person's appearance, but it's not the most important thing when looking for true love. Smell has a lot to do with that too. Your pheromones to be exact. A pheromone is a signaling molecule (odor) that transmits messages between individuals of the same species. So if you like the smell of the other person's pheromones, your brain receives the signal that you are sexually attracted to that person. It works the other way around, you can't feel attracted to another person at all because you don't like his or her scent.
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Author - Mariko Naber
Mariko is the happy brain behind Happlify. Together with partner Mark she runs Sell your stuff online, branding agency Loaded ink BNO en Atelier Naber . She loves feel good, random acts of kindness, meatballs, chocolate mousse, family time, zee, piña colada, sugar & spice and everything nice 💛